well a year on and I am happy to say that Sally is still here has grown heaps and looks amazing.....she still is headstanding but has improved quite a bit since I got her. I have an internal filter and she has worked out that if she sits near it in a certain position near the water intake she can actually stay upright with not much effort (who says fish are dumb). She is one huge fat and very colourful girl. I do keep a couple of stunted young ones in with her for company. I was really hoping that this could be made a sticky somewhere so people realize that although it does look quite distressing watching a headstander and they do take a little special care that there is no need to put them out of their misery they are not miserable. My girl is the happiest fish I own I call her my dog fish as she is always happy to see me and the way she swims looks like she is wagging her tail.